The accompanying sequal to
"Benedict C. L. - Fallen from Sabby's
GothicPunkLolita Alice's Wonderland"
An Introduction
Today i had a rather short conversation with ben over msn. We haven't spoken to each other for ages. Soon after this conversation, he blocked me from his list. He acussed me for defaming him. He said that i was the one who set up an alternate account on friendster and that i was impersonating him. He went as far as to say that i had written Mike's testimonial to Rae
This is Mike's Profile Summery on Friendster:
And, this was the testimonial left on Rae's page:
Mike
Monday, 21 November 2005
Rae intrigued me. I have not seen a lady with half as much knowledge as she has about my occupation. She was more exhilarated than i am about flying, aerobatics, fighter pilots and RSAF acquired aircrafts. She can undeniably hold a good conversation and outwit any of her gender. Our intellective conversation lasted hours. I'd like to revel in her company and the little of her fun-loving nature and wicked sense of humour, alongside our momentous date. Her confidence level is an added attraction to her beauty. It is doubtlessly my prestige and honour our paths crossed, to be acquainted with such a perfect rare gem. I could barely take my eyes off this gorgeous. The longing to bring her to the skies on her special day.I love you, sweet. Stay put, till my return.
Sabriel Thinkeths
First of all, i'd be the first to admit that i know nothing about planes. Holding a conversation with a girl who knows alot about my occupation would sure be tough if i was to impersonate a pilot. As much as i doubt my femininity, i doubt that i could pass off as a man, Ben or otherwise, to be able to meet up with a girl, who's obviously in another country, and craft 'intellective conversations" with her for hours, possibly on our "momentous date". I might be a goddess, but i sure do have my limits! Teleportation and shapeshifting (into ben) aren't amongst my talents.
Mike started his account in March 2004. Ben and I broke up in July 2004. It would hardly seem necessary for me to create an account, on friendster (of all places), to get even with a man i was still very much in love with, at that time.
MSN A-Go-Go
This is the logged conversation i managed to get over msn with ben:
Ben says:
fuck you
Ben says:
i still think u're responsible for creating mike
Ben says:
then attempting to break me and my gf up
Ben says:
fuck yu
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
how did i do that?
Ben says:
i really dun care about it btw
Ben says:
and so doesn't my gf
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
i hve no idea what you're talking about
Ben says:
just tot it was a little amusing
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
and (S) told me about mike
Ben says:
watever
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
get your facts right
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
i have no interest in your life
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
dont kid yourself
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
you're just looking for someone to blame
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
you're such a sad angry person
Ben says:
the style and use of language on rae's testi was so yours
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
maybe you should talk to (S) about it
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
cuz he's her friend
Ben says:
it was rae's testi that gave it away
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
other then that i have no idea what you are talking about
Ben says:
b4 that i tot it was someone else doing it
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
apparently she's met this guy
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
i haven't spoken to her, or your gf
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
so dont accuse me of anything
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
they are both in sg
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
and i'm here.. how the hell am i suppose to dress up like you and date that girl?
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
it's a pretty unbelievable feat if you ask me
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
i hope you work it out with your gf. other then that, i'm sorry if someone has been impersonating you and taking out this other girl
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
i kindly await more of your wild accusations and your justifications for them.
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
if it upsets you so much you should have mike removed. friendster offers you this service
Sabby Pondereths
It all sounds pretty unbelievable to me... poor benedicky... he thinks way too *highly* of me to think i'd be able to manage such a charade. I don't have that much time on my hands.
An Analysis
Anyone who compares Mike's testimonial with my other writings will realise that i could never be the author of such an ill-composed prose. Ben adds insult to injury by suggesting that Mike's writing is like mine. I did an analysis of Mike's Testimonial to Rae and this is what i came up with, while trying to keep true to the original, apologies if i got any of the 'facts' wrong in the process of the analysis.
Note that the original 'Mike to Rae' Testimonial has been presented in Green while my comments have been presented in Orange:
Rae intrigued me.
"Rae INTRIGUES me" – if she IS my girlfriend she should still intrigue me in the present! She didn’t just intrigue me and then stopped intriguing me. Maybe she did intrigue me before i met her, in this case, shouldn't i, as Mike, have said something like "Rae intrigued me from the start."
I have not seen a lady with half as much knowledge as she has about my occupation.
Why would I call her ‘a lady’? I’m a subconscious feminist and using a word like ‘lady’ to describe her in a testimonial just sounds plain wrong. I would have used a word like ‘person’, because Rae is a person who is knowledgeable about my occupation. The fact that she is a female should not add to my awe that she is oh so knowledgeable.
She was more exhilarated than i am about flying, aerobatics, fighter pilots and RSAF acquired aircrafts.
I have no idea what this means… that she is enthusiastic about pilot stuff? Would I have written something along the lines of “She shows a surprisingly strong passion towards XX that surpasses my own.”
She can undeniably hold a good conversation and outwit any of her gender.
'…any of her gender' <-- If I did write this, did I mean to say that she could outwit only those of her gender and that she would never be able to outwit a man? How about those gender benders? How about those of her sex but not of her gender? How would Rae match up against them? I’m not even going to try rephrasing this… it sounds incredibly sexist and uneducated. I’m not sure if this was meant to be tongue-in-cheek or seriously romantic.
Our intellective conversation lasted hours. I'd like to revel in her company and the little of her fun-loving nature and wicked sense of humour, alongside our momentous date.
This phrase is just awful and not to mention painful to read… took me three goes to understand it. My version: “Our intellectual conversations lasted for hours and I reveled in her company, her fun-loving nature and her wicked sense of humor, during our momentous date”
Her confidence level is an added attraction to her beauty.
My version: “Her level of confidence only adds to my attraction to her beauty.”
It is doubtlessly my prestige and honour our paths crossed, to be acquainted with such a perfect rare gem. I could barely take my eyes off this gorgeous. The longing to bring her to the skies on her special day.I love you, sweet. Stay put, till my return
My version: “It is undoubtedly my prestige and honor that I met this gem. I could barely take my eyes of her gorgeous self. I long to bring her to the skies on her special day. I love you, my sweet. Await for my return.” To add to this, I am notorious for spelling words like ‘honour’ and ‘humour’ as ‘honor’ and ‘humor’, especially on the computer.
Mike might have charmed Rae with his grammatical horrors and linguistic poverty but surely i could not have came up with such a monstrosity. I have my vanity too. How could Ben suggest that Mike's style is like mine when it is so obviously flawed? Ben must be indeed motivated, to frame me, by another agenda.
A Working Hypothesis
So what truth is there in all this? Is there really some one out there Ben-like enough to be able to fool a girl such as Rae? How did Mavis find out about Mike? What did Ben say to Mavis, and why did he try to pin this whole thing on me? I suppose i'd never know why, unless the Ben or Mike comes clean. Until then, I'd still stand by my initial hypothesis:
Ben created Mike to dog other girls behind my back while he and i were still together.
He continues to use Mike while he dates Mavis.
Rae believes that Mike is her boyfriend. (Her friendster profile states that she is currently in the relationship)
Mike and Rae have spoken over the phone and have met in person at least once.
To add to this:
Mavis has caught Ben out.
In order for Ben to salvage this relationship, he requires a scapegoat. (ME!)
Ben has explained to Mavis that his evil ex-fiance ("driven to the brink of madness by jealousy") set him up.
Mavis believes him.
Mavis believes that I am Mike and Ben is not a cheat.
In Closing
I can hardly believe that Ben can stoop so low. Part of me would like to believe that there is some truth to his accussations and that someone is really impersonating him. However, the 'date' with Rae proved his downfall. It proves that Rae met someone who looked very very very much like Ben.
I'd never want to be responsible for breaking up a relationship. It's not something i'd do. It hurts that he would try to do something as seedy as to cheat on his current girlfriend and try to blame the whole fiasco on me. I'm not even in the same city or country as they are. This is utterly incredible.
Ben once quoted Socrates, on his friendster, "There is only one good, knowledge, and one evil, ignorance." I believe it's painfully clear, in this situation, who is the one witholding the knowledge and who are the ones living in ignorance.
Referances
Their Friendster Profiles can be found at the bottom of THIS BLOG
An Epilogue of Sorts
I dont see how Ben can fast-talk his way out of this predicament. His girlfriends should know better.
If i am wrong, if Mike is really someone else impersonating Ben, then it is obvious that Rae is in on this impersonation scam as well, because Rae endorses the existance of Mike by displaying his testimonial. If Ben and Mavis think that i am responsible for the creation of Mike, they should activity file a report against these two individuals, via friendster for impersonation (and possibly defamation on a legal front). However, no such report as been made to my knowledge. One can only wonder why. Does everyone but me know what is really going on? Are they just living in denial, not wanting to know the truth? This is some elaborate hoax conjured up by the three of them in an attempt to make me look bad? How the hell did Ben think he could get away with this?
I can only hope that the two girls realise eventually, what exactly they have gotten themselves into. There are no winners in this situation. Everyone comes out looking foolish - except for me.
Feedback
Antik says:
[strange thing is] if he did used that to dog other gals..he can blame it on u discreetly no need to actually talk to u about it..unless he got his gf watching..or [that he is] going to send it [as] proof [to her]..but either way very stupid to dog his gf on like.. friendster..considering that the circle is big..but also small..
Antik says:
o btw can u tell Ben to fuck off himself..this from Hoi to him for being rude on u..
It's late enough to go driving... says:
this is freakin' hilarious. this guy my be friggin retarded. I'm reading your convo with him on your blog. what a dickface
Sabriel Dark Epic Drama Queen says:
i mean why would he drag me into this?
It's late enough to go driving... says:
cuz he wants a scapegoat
--dmi_x33-- ouch! says:
hhmm good read.. interesting.. what an insecure dickhead
H:
y … did [he do] that? the gf [is] stoopid (in denial). ask him fark off. fark it. heck care. the gal thinks ben is pilot. [it’s all because of the] money and reconigtion. i mean, for a singaporean gal to like him, becos of his fame [as a] pilot. and [the] money. that's y …have these 2 words, (deleted) and (deleted). anyway heck care.
